Single women with confidence and high self esteem are at risk of being targeted by predators whose sole goal is to break their spirits. These guys seek to knock you off your high horse, shake your confidence, and damage your self-esteem in order to WIN some sick game of mental manipulation and control.
Learn what confidence is, and the five tactics used to break the confident woman with high self esteem. Tips for how to recognize when one of these guys has come into your life so you can quickly NEXT! him.
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I have seen this so many times, Busta A$$ men (boys)
Deborrah, please make a video on femininity. Thank you. Love you :)
Deborrah Cooper I agree with you Deb. Femininity is something that males
want because it benefits THEM. They are energy vampires and they need Women
to make them feel good and human. I turned mine off a long time ago. The
other poster is right, the ones you treat like crap, and hold your ground
they seem to respect you more but at the same time want to break you down.
I see no benefit to being “feminine” really. But it may still be a good
topic. Gotta think about it. Thanks Brklyn 29
Now that I think it about it, which is something you always preach in your
videos, is to build confidence and just be you. Black men say we need to be
more feminine but for what? Unfortunately I get more respect from men when
I am bitchy than when I am feminine.
+BRKLYN 29 Tell me more
I wish that I would’ve heard this ten years ago.
When I told me now ex boyfriend to “back up; slow down; the slower we go
the quicker we will get there; I don’t have the time or need to have a
sleep over 2-4 times a week; I enjoy my alone time and I am busy studying
because my job requires it. I also shared I have my own dreams and a goal
of possibly leaving the country to Teach English as Second Language once I
retire in 2-5 years; I do well alone.” He absolutely hates to listen about
my dreams and goal. He cuts me off and changes the subject. When we were
dating and out on the town, and I hinted that the free complementary drinks
were weak and I wanted to go yo the bar to purchase a “real” drink, he did
not like the way I confidently stepped up to the bar he stated (“like a man
and to have a seat”) to purchase our drinks. yes. I asked him what he
wanted as well with my personal credit card in hand. After finishing our
drinks I purchased at the bar, he bought another one for me, I guess to
make up for the one I bought him but he didn’t buy another one for himself.
After that interaction, he became irritated and disconnrcted. Needless to
say, after dropping me off at home he sent me a breakup text message. He
just could not handle me or control me.
There are a lot of sick dudes out there! Thery need weak women with low
self-esteem to validate their manhood.